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Things happen.

You either
keep moving
or die...

#life

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I hope you never have to endure the painful realization that you have lost me... AND live with the pain of knowing it was all your fault. Be good, honest, understanding, and faithful to me, and you'll never have to watch me walk away.

#faithful, #relationships, #realize, #pain, #love, #always

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I just read an article on my ipad about the evils and dangers of drinking.
I think I'll stop--reading.

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#drinking, #funny

You & Me...
Lets stay AWESOME

#you, #me, #stay, #awesome, #relationships, #love

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everytime you speak, i can feel my brain cells committing suicide one by one

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Whenever I delete an app on my phone,
the shaking icons make me feel like they're all panicked over who's getting axed •

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a life with purpose

is the purpose
of life

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i want to be the reason you look down at your phone and smile.
then you walk into a pole.

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Let's fuck the sad out of each other.

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Personality begins where comparison ends.

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I have seen the best of you, and the worst of you; and I choose both.

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Patience, n.

A minor form of despair, disguised as a virtue.

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#patience, #virtue, #despair

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I know I will love you forever because your heart consumes mine. You've broken me beyond repair, but I know I will love you forever because at the end of every day, you hold me close as we fall asleep and I can feel your heart reaching out to comfort mine. Its only you- and only you, I will love forever.

#love, #broken, #forgiveness, #heart, #soulmate, #repair

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Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.

#life, #inspiration, #quote

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if there is but one thing you do for peace in this world then simply being at peace with yourself is enough

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#peace, #innerself, #soul

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Now that I've tried to talk to you and make you understand All you have to do is close your eyes And just reach out your hands and touch me Hold me close don't ever let me go More than words is all I ever needed you to show Then you wouldn't have to say that you love me 'cause I'd already know

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#love, #truelove, #holdme, #perfect

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,,If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second,,

~Johnny Depp

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#love, #choices, #truth

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10 ways to break the ice
Does a new client leave your mind as frozen as a Hollywood actress’s forehead? Are you a non-stop motor mouth with your friends but totally tongue tied at work? Some people have the gift of gab; for others it’s an acquired skill. Either way, in this people-lovin’ business, it’s critical to be able to hold your own with the clients in your chair even if they’re reserved or difficult. Maybe you don’t have time to digest “The Wall Street Journal” and the “New York Times” every morning, but you do have to show up to work with something to say. Here are 10 ice-breaking tips to get the conversational ball rolling and keep it cruising in the right direction.

1. Ask questions that can’t be answered in monosyllables—unless the reply will lead to a follow-up you already have in mind. For example, a question like, “Have you always lived here?” can be responded to with a conversation-stopper like, “yes,” or “no,” but you can then easily move onto a more open-ended query like: “What do you like best about the neighborhood?” or “Where did you live before?”

2. It’s okay to put yourself in the conversation if it will ultimately switch the focus to the person in your chair. Asking, “Did you see George Clooney’s new film?” elicits a
”yes” or “no” and could go nowhere, while, “Seen any good movies lately?” sounds forced. Better to say something like, “I’m going to George Clooney’s new movie. What do you think of him?” Bringing yourself into the conversation invites dialogue instead of interrogation.

3. Talk about the weather only if it’s unusual. “Nice day, isn’t it?” doesn’t cut it, but, “How’s your neighborhood after that big storm?” leads to all sorts of interesting things.

4. Keep up with the news. Make a point of knowing what’s going on in the world and in your own city. You don’t need to be an international or domestic policy expert—your clients will like being able to fill you in--but you do want to sound like an informed citizen of the world.

5. Take a good look at the person in your chair and adjust your topic accordingly. Don’t talk Amy Winehouse to a Frank Sinatra client or Gaultier to a gal who’s all twin set and pearls. When trying to start a conversation, snap judgments can actually help. Look for clues (black nail polish or black cashmere?) and try to gauge your client’s tastes before starting the conversation.

6. There’s no taboo like an old taboo. Why? Because some of them still hold true—like never talk religion or politics (today those explosive topics can be riskier than ever.) Same goes for asking personal questions. (If she tells you she’s thinking about a facelift, the appropriate response is never, “So, exactly how old are you?”) It takes a lot of mutual good feeling to keep a client, but just one really tactless question to blow it.

7. Leave your troubles behind. No one comes to the salon to hear about your ex--that rat. However, they are probably eager to talk about the pond scum THEY just broke up with. Word to the wise here: listen, make sympathetic sounds, but avoid jumping into the pond scum dissing session. Otherwise, when kiss-and-make-up time rolls around and true love reigns once more, who’s going to seem like the rat? Y-o-u.

8. Listen/talk ratio? It’s the old 80/20, and don’t forget it. Your job is to draw your client out and make him or her feel comfortable and enjoy their experience in the chair. For the majority, this means the chance to be in the company of a good listener. If they’re looking for a monologue, they can go to a comedy club.

9. Control your passions. No matter how strongly you believe in chiropractic vegetarianism, UFOs, pre-emptive invasions, spinning or the power of astrology, keep a lid on it. If, on the other hand, the client wants to talk about HER passion, it’s best to feign interest even if you’re a non-believer. Responding to a question of, “What’s your sign?” with “I’m a Gemini” works better than announcing, “Oh, I’m not stupid enough to believe all that.”

10. When tongues get tied, compliments tend to loosen them. There’s always something nice to say about anyone. (Attila the Hun? Appealingly assertive.) Anyone is pleased to know someone else likes their earrings, watch, shoes, tattoos or taste in literature. Not only are you showing you approve of their choices, you’re also positioning yourself as someone who appreciates, and possibly shares, their tastes.

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#conversations, #social, #icebreakers

when I see you I feel scared to touch you, when I touch you I feel scared to kiss you,
when I kiss you I feel scared to hug you,
when I hug you I feel scared to love you,
when I love you I feel scared to lose you ....

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#love, #passion, #relationships, #quote, #beautiful

Men use love to get sex. Women use sex to get love. Me? I use coupons to get pizza...

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#sex, #women, #men, #love, #pizza, #funny

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There's "hell" in hello, "good" in goodbye, "lie" in believe, "over" in lover, "end" in friend, "ex" in "next", & "if" in life.

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#change, #life, #Inspiration, #Truth

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Always be better than you were yesterday
•••••••••••••

#Change, #Positive, #inspiration, #Motivation, #life, @asummerloved

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Falling in love is easy.
Staying in love requires dedication, understanding, forgiveness, great sex-often, showing support even if you may not agree, silly flirting, random compliments, exposing your weaknesses and trusting those weaknesses will never be used against you. True Love Takes Work.

#Truelove, #Marriage, #relationships, #life, #truth, #encouragement, #forgiveness, #Respect, #Honor, #Dedication, #Commitment, #Sex

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Common sense;
Not a blessing, but a curse.

Why?

You have to deal with everyone who Doesn't have it...

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#commonsense

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In life, if you dont risk anything, you risk everything.

#risks, #live, #alive, #motivational, #quote

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As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to have more friends and more important to have real ones. ••••••••••••••••••••

#friends, #life, #growing, #love, #quote

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Its better to be alone than to be in bad company.

#alone, #company, #quote, #positive

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The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.

#love, #self, #lost

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When only one person hears and understands you.
Sometimes, that's all you need.

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#love, #truth

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Sorry, but your password must contain a capital letter, two numbers,
a symbol, an inspiring message, a spell,
a gang sign,
a hieroglyph and the blood of a virgin.

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#funny, #passwords

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Sprayed Febreeze in my bathroom.

Now it smells like shitrus.

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#funny, #bathroom, #humor

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around xmas everybody is a spicegirl:

i tell you what i want what i really really want

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#xmas

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Never argue
with an idiot..
the people
watching may
not know the difference •

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#truth

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nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them...

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#love, #perfect

Does running late count as exercise?

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#excerise, #funny, #late

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I love this time of the year. You can slam your laptop shut when the girlfriend walks into the room without getting a disgusted look

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#funny

Self-control
is the best super power you can have •

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#self, #control, #wisdom, #quote

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Every family has one weird relative.

If you don't know who it is, then it's probably you.

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#funny, #family

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teeth:
because blow jobs need to come with a gentle reminder of who's really in charge

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#blowjobs, #funny

Dont say you dont have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, Albert Einstein, etc

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@asummerloved

Dont say you dont have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michaelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, Albert Einstein, etc

#quote, #time, #thoughts, #life, #motivation, #family, #love, #friends, #live

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