Emotional control.
If you are quick to react with anger, you lose respect. Avoiding this is to nurture what I call the Gap.
Reactive people have tiny gaps, meaning they don't create any space between a triggering stimulus and their emotional response.
Non-reactive people command tremendous respect because they have nurtured gaps wide enough to allow any tension in themselves to dissipate. 
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