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Imagine that your life is a TV series. (Not a "reality show" but an actual show, with writers and professional actors and talent.)
When you meet someone who annoys you, think about him in terms of "why did we introduce this character? What facets of my personality does he bring out? What kind of plot device could he be?"
See what this new perspective allows you to see about your reality.